PARENTING WORKSHOP

PARENTING WORKSHOP

July 13^th, 2013, EBCC, Dwarka.

Saptuam te saina a Parenting Workshop om ding ahi chih thu hong om a, a tung in bel ta leh nau etkol di le om tadih lou a, chih ngaihdan nei in tel ding kana sawm khol kei hi. Ahi a, kikhopna khat ah Pastor in hiai thu hon genna ah ta leh nau neita te’n bel zaza lengle I paidan/zuihdan sim khat ana kinei khin a, huai tan tung nailou a kisa lellel te, nungak tangvalte tam tel le hong chih leh, eh! Hina ngut e chi in, kava tel uh hi ka lawmnu tawh.

Hiai Workshop hun nih in a kikhen a, hun masa ah Rev. V. Nenglian in Biblical Parenting chih thupi a nei in hun masa hon zatpih a, hun nih na a Pu Vumlunmang IAS in TIPS for Raising Children chih thupi a zang in nuamtak in hun hon zatpih nawn hi.

Hun masa ah Pastor in naupang etkolna style chithum in hon khenpih a, huaite hon suutpih hi. Huaite:

1)      Authoritarian Style:  Hiai dan style ahih leh rule oriented style, order, hih koh, khoih koh, ba huai hih chihte in dim hi. Hiai dan a ki enkol naupangte a tawpna a kingaisia uh chi hi.

2)      Permissive Style:  Hiai dan style ahih leh uninvolved style leng kichi hi. A thu a gengen, a sepsuahna lam omlou. Pai dingdan, om dingdan thu tampi genkhia, thugente bangtan lohching, bangtan zuih a om chih nung zuihna omlou chih ahi.

3)      Democratic Style:  Hiai democratic style ahih leh kuapeuh a dia zuih dia kilawm leh hoih ahi. Naupang hiai na hih di, huai na hih di chih a thu chauh a gen hilou a, kithuahpih, naupang a damsung a thupukna kichian neithei dia panpih uh chidan ahi hiai dan style te’n.

Hun nihna ah Pu Vumlunmang in Naupang etkol didan tips genna hun nei hi. Aman a genna ah naupang etkolna ah nu leh pa te’n I dinmun I chian mahmah ding ahi, naupang etkol I chih I siamna dinmun hiam, nekzonna dinmun hiam leh saptuam hiam khotang hiam a I dinmun himawk lou ahi. Pa or Nu dinmun ahi a, mundang ah ihihna hiam dinmun hiam te omzia neilou tuk ahi.  Nu leh pa ten naupanung thununna ah amau mah a pat discipline a kipat ding chih haih louh ding ahi. Huan, naupang etkolna ah banghiam sepkhelh bawlkhelh I neihni a pa pen, nu pen, upapen chihman a dik kisak gige ding leng hilou ahi, I sepkhelh bawlkhelh hun a khial ihihlam kipuan ding chih ahi.

Naupang etkolna ah zuihdan kichian tak khat neih ngai ahi. Etsakna dia I kipah hun, nuam isak hun a naupang te tutna tung khong ah a kimawl uh I phal a, a phiat vengvung uh I phal leh, kipah louhni, mood off ni a leng I phal ding ahi. Huchi hilou a, hunkhat a phal an hundang khat a ei mood zir a a kibang mah I phal keileh naupangte confused gawp ding uh ahi chi hi.

Naupang etkolna ah lungkiak vungvung hun leng om a, huai hun chiang a I ta I nau te toh kisai a kipah huai hunte ngaihtuah thak zel a, thathak lak zel ding ahi. Etsakna dia kalkhat hong suan theih ua, kammal khat hon gen theih lai ua ikipahna khong ngaihtuah thak zel a, thanem mailou a thathak lak zel ding.

Khovel a I gou vangam I tunpih theih ding omsun tate ahi a, haksa leh leng lungke ken, Pathian toh pangkhawm a zou di ihi chi hi.

Huan, nu leh pa ten leng I Christian na, I hihna bangchi tan I I gum ngam a?  A diak a India secular khopi ah sahkhua teng a kibang a hi chi a, a langtang a doutu omlouhna ah naupangte hoihtak a kep ahih kei ua leh manthat hiam paikhelh pen baihlam pi ahih dan leng gen hi.

Screen Addiction or technology toh kisai ahih leh tusang mah a hong uang zaw ding ahi hun hong tung zel ding ah. Huai ziak a nu leh pa te-n I lungsim technology toh kisai a ana shutdown thei mawk hilou ihi, I theih ding khat bel, “whoever masters the ‘screen’ is on way to success – adult or child”, chi hi.

Nidang a lehkhabu kal a novel buneu khat sim a nu leh pate khemna stage peel daih a technology toh kikhemna hun a om ihita a, nu leh paten le technology toh kisai mohpuakna, challenge lianpi om ahi, ki shutdown mawk theih hilou ahi chi hi.

Pastor in a genna ah Mosi a piannung, Pharo tanu’ tapa a hih a, a nun va don, huai a va don sung a nu ahihna a a tup(goal) tangtun man. Mosi Hebru mi ahih chiang man, Hebrute Pathian a Pathian ahih kip man ta. Huai nung a Aigupta pilna te bangchiteng a zilsak in om lehleng a hihna leh ginna liing nawnlou chi hi.

NB: Hiai hi koimah a koihsawn dia gelh hilou, kei kep di himhim a ka gelh ahi. A kim sipsip kei ding, ken poimawh kasak leh kana chiamteh khakte kon gelhkhiak ahi.